Meet people IRL.
On your terms.

Nudge helps you connect at events, hotspots, and places you already go — with a consent-first system that puts you in control of every interaction.

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Available on iOS via TestFlight


You set the signal.
They respect it.

Choose how you want to be approached — in the moment, wherever you are. Your traffic light status tells others exactly what you're comfortable with, before anyone says a word.

Approach OK

Come say hi

You're open to meeting people. Others can walk up and introduce themselves — no request needed.

Ask First

Send a request

You'd prefer a digital handshake first. Others send a quick request you can accept or decline before meeting.

Not Right Now

App only

You're visible but not open to approaches. Others can still connect with you through the app.


Find your people at
real places and events

See what's happening this weekend. RSVP to events, check in at venues, and discover who else is there — all with the same consent-first approach.

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Weekend events

Run clubs, trivia nights, live music — curated local events where Nudge users gather. See who's going and set your status before you arrive.

Curated venues

Coffee shops, bars, parks, and bookstores — real places vetted for great dates. Check in, set your traffic light, and see who's around.

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Activity heatmap

See where people are gathering in your area without seeing anyone's exact position. Privacy-first by design.


From screen to scene

Connection should start in the real world, not end there.

1

Show up somewhere

Check in at a hotspot, RSVP to an event, or go In the Wild at your favorite spot.

2

Set your signal

Green, yellow, or red — you decide how others can interact with you, and you can change it anytime.

3

Meet with consent

If someone's interested, they either walk up (green) or send a quick request (yellow). No one approaches without your signal.

4

Build your reputation

Post-interaction feedback builds your reliability score. Respectful people rise. The community holds itself accountable.


Accountability at every step

Nudge isn't just another dating app. Every feature is designed to make real-world connection safer and more intentional.

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Consent-first design

Every interaction starts with your permission. No one approaches without your signal saying it's OK.

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GPS check-in

Venue check-ins are GPS-verified. You can't fake being somewhere you're not.

Reliability score

Your reputation follows you. Show up, be honest, be respectful — it all counts.

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Privacy first

Location is never shared precisely. Activity zones show density, never exact positions.


Ready to meet people
the way you want to?

Nudge is currently available for iOS via TestFlight. Request early access and help us build dating that works in the real world.

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